Direct from the keyboard of the lady who only dates Bobs...
Yes Bob #3 is just as real as #1 and #2. He wasn't the guilty party but how was I to know that?
Bob #1's also had brain surgery and asked me to be his caretaker. The instructions I recieved upon leaving the hospital were, "If he starts bleeding and you are close by, bring him back immediately. There won't be time for the ambulance to revive him."
A bit too much pressure for a new relationship.